8 Types of Girlfriends Every Woman Should Ditch

Credit: BMWK

When it comes to living the life we want, we have to be willing to let go of the things and people that no longer serve us. If something is stressing you more than blessing you, it’s time to let it go. It’s not for you.
So here are 8 Types of Girlfriends Every Woman Should Ditch:

1. Fairweather Fiona

Fairweather Fiona - BMWK

We all know this “friend”. When things are going amazing for you, she’s right there to cheer you on and keep you encouraged. She sings praises about you and is there when you call. But when things aren’t so great, she’s MIA, ghost, nowhere to be found. In that case i say ditch here please!. 

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2.Negative Natalie

Everyone and everything is turning against her. Nothing ever goes right. Nothing is ever her fault. Everyone is dumb or stupid in her eyes. The sun shines, she complains it’s too hot. When it rains, she wants to see the sun. She curses everybody and everything all day long. Negativity is energy draining, and no one wants to be around that 24/7. Birds of a feather flock together. Are u still with a Girlfriend like that? Now is the time to Ditch her!

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3. Self-Centered Sheila

 

You know the type. Everything is about her. Anytime someone is sharing their successes and standing in “her” spotlight, she always finds a way to shine the light back on her. Only, it’s really not a good look. She’s also the type that thinks the world revolves around her….like you are supposed to drop absolutely everything to tend to her emergencies (because truth be told, that’s the only time she calls). No reason for ditching needed. Just do it.

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4. Shady Susan

Shady Susan encourages you to your face then talks about you behind your back and keeps it moving. Sometimes you just don’t want to believe it because you see such a different person when you interact with her. But like they say: when someone shows you who they are, believe them.

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5. Know-it-all Kayla

 

You know who she is. She’s always correcting you and everyone else around you. You can’t tell her anything without her getting defensive and trying to put you in your place. Even when she knows she’s dead wrong, she’ll figure out a way to turn the tables. There’s absolutely no way she could ever be wrong…about anything.

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6. Jealous Jade

 

I know, you don’t want to believe it. But your long-time friend that you keep making excuses for is jealous and she’s a hater. Anytime you have an event or invite them somewhere, she seems to be MIA. You’re always the one to reach out, and never the other way around. She would never admit it but secretly, she’s a hater. She’s never genuinely happy for you, and usually gives you backwards compliments. She doesn’t wish ill on you, but she’s envious of where you are and what you have. Real friends cheer you on and support you without you having to say a word. Ditch the ones you have to continuously run after.

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7. Passive-aggressive Patty

She’s the one that smiles on the outside, but is fuming with vengeance on the inside. Instead of telling you if she has a problem with you directly, she is quick to throw you under the bus and act like she’s innocent. She can be draining because you never know what your gonna get.

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8. Serious Sophie

This “friend” can’t joke or take a joke about anything. She takes life too seriously, thus, sucking the fun (sometimes life) out of you. Everyone stops laughing as soon as she walks into the room, and you keep wondering why you’re still friends. Life is beautiful and it’s definitely too short to spend it without laughter.

We have to be careful about who we surround ourselves with, and allow to take up space in our minds and hearts. They are a reflection of who we are and where we’re going in life. I don’t know about you, but I’d much rather have two positive girlfriends in my life than six that act like any of the ones mentioned above.

Have you had to ditch negative people in your life? How have you handled it?

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