8 Reasons Why Your Man May be Mr. Wrong

For some people, finding the right mate just happens. They weren’t looking for it, but somehow they were in the right place at the right time, they dated, and love blossomed. Sure, developing a strong foundation may not have been easy, but finding each other wasn’t all that hard. It simply just happened.

That isn’t always the case though. Some people find themselves ready and waiting for the right mate to come along. They want to fall in love and build a future with a person that they believe God crafted for them, but it doesn’t seem to be happening in their time.

Finding the right life partner is a reasonable desire that many of us share. But what happens when you end up with someone and something in your gut just doesn’t feel right? You love them, but it seems like something is off. Maybe you can’t quite put your finger on it, or maybe you can and you just don’t want to admit it.

Whatever the case is, you find yourself in a position that makes your seriously question if you will truly be happy building a life with this person.

Love is a powerful thing and without it, a marriage will suffer. Although, love alone does not make a happy couple. It takes a lot more than that. If you find yourself wondering if the man you’ve convinced yourself is Mr. Right might actually be Mr. Wrong, keep reading.

Here are a few signs that your guy, no matter how much you think you love him, may just be the wrong guy for you.

1. He has cheated on your multiple times

People makes mistakes and any married couple will tell you that without forgiveness, it’s hard to make a marriage last. That said, if someone is cheating on you repeatedly, even after promising that they won’t anymore, it’s a nasty pattern. Chances are a ring a vow won’t force them to break that pattern. Run the other way.

2. He will not even consider premarital counseling

 It’s one thing for your man to do it reluctantly since many men do not like the idea of counseling. However, refusing to do something that will ultimately help you create a strong union is really a bad sign.

3.He calls you names at times

This is connected to the aforementioned lack of respect. Couples have arguments, but constant name-calling is unacceptable. If your man calls you stupid, lazy, fat or any other combination of nasty names. He does not deserve you.

4.He tends to raise his voice at you a lot

Sure, people get in heated fights at times, but being yelled at because of something you said or did really isn’t okay. I think all adults should be mature enough to communicate with inside voices instead of intimidating people with screams and shouts.

5.He has qualities that make you question his parenting abilities

If you plan to have a family, one of the main things you should think about is whether or not you can see this man being a good dad. If he gives you major reasons to doubt his ability to be a good father to your children, he’s probably not the right guy for you.

6.He has little regard for the people you love most

Your man doesn’t have to absolutely love all of your friends and family members, but he should respect how much you love them and treat them accordingly. You don’t have to love people (or even like them) to be kind.

7.He doesn’t value your opinion

What you have to say should always matter. It doesn’t mean that things will always go your way, it just means that you feel heard and you know your mate places value on what you have to say.

8.He refuses to discuss the future

Of course you can’t map out every detail of your lives together, but if he never, ever wants to talk about what lies ahead, it’s kind of suspect.

Have you ever dated anyone with these qualities? Did you leave or stay?